Funny – Made in Naija!

Some days ago, I went to a supermarket for shopping. I bought some Titus Sardine. When I got home I kept them in the refrigerator. This morning I was so much in a hurry to get to work because I was running late. I needed a snap breakfast. Then I remembered I have Titus sardine in the fridge. When I opened one can, O boy, I was surprised. It looked different. It was then I decided to re-examine the cover of the can. Instead of ‘Titus,’ I saw ‘Titis.’ Waoh! Naijaaaaaaaa! Titus is now Titis. God have mercy. Don’t ask me if I ate it, oh. That's over-sharing!

Sometime ago, a friend bought Mouka foam in the market. Feeling good, he slept on his Mouka foam till morning. In the morning when he woke up, he noticed that the foam has flattened. He waited to see if it will spring back, no way! He decided to re-examine the foam. Instead of MOUKA, he saw UMUOKA. Naijaaaaaaaa.

Imagine that phones are produced in Nigeria, we will see names like
- Sam sungu
- Enokia
- Suny Emekasson
- Omotorola
- Toshibe

Dis count-tri heeded by Goodrock Ibele Joratan, which revel? Na so we go dey dey like edede everyday so tail we don get fake Aso Rock? If you see ‘Welcome to Asu Rock,’ O boy, make sharp reverse oh, otherwise ur tory will no be told in Uvation. I rest my kase oh!

Funny - Back in the Days!

Years ago while on my matriculation groove, the ‘staylites’ (as opposed to the Jambites) were singing: “Matriculation nor be convocation; matriculation nor be convocation; matriculation nor be convocation; somebody go kpai.” At that time I felt: “Who cares? Let’s celebrate today’s joys and face tomorrow’s problems when it comes.” Anyways, years later I understood the full meaning of that song. ‘No be small thing o.’

‘See, na joke! I nor dey oh.’ There was this guy, he was a staylite. He had a younger brother who was a Jambite. They went to a convocation ceremony together. Before they left home, they agreed on a code of communication:

1^st class degree = I too know

2^nd class upper degree = I pass them

2^nd class lower degree = I am loyal

3^rd class degree = I don’t care

Pass = I was there

Fail = The Devil is a liar.

When they got to the ceremony, they went inside the Auditorium.

Jambite pointed to some guys grinning from molar to molar, Staylite said: ‘I too know.’ Jambite pointed to some sitting close to the podium, Staylite: ‘I pass them.’

Jambite looked behind him, Staylite: ‘I am loyal.’

Finally, they came out. Jambite saw so many people with convocation gowns standing outside taking pictures and partying. Jambite: ‘Why are they standing outside when the actual ceremony is going on inside? Staylite: ‘I don’t care.’

At the back of the Auditorium, Jambite saw a group of boys and girls. They were praying, singing, binding, and exorcising. Jambite pointed at them. Staylite: ‘Stop staring at them. The Devil is a liar.’

Things you see that make you feel amazed! (Compilation of 1 – 3)

1. While shopping in an open market in Kano, I walked by an elderly lady. She was all smiles. I wondered what was making this old lady so happy. She was clutching a brand new transistor radio to her chest. Apparently, she just bought it and felt so delighted about her new acquisition. ‘Is it not just a small radio set?’ You may wonder. Well, if I buy that same radio and send it to my elderly aunt in the South, she may not share the excitement of this woman I saw. It got me thinking:

Our happiness is not determined by the (material) worth of the things we own; rather our happiness is derived from the value we place on the things we own. – My Reflections.

2. I traveled to the South a while ago. It was a long road trip. Scared of having a running stomach, I did not take breakfast before l left for the park. When we got to Kaduna, I was so hungry but I was too scared to eat because I had an unpleasant experience the last time I traveled that long. Some hours later we got to Abuja. My stomach was rumbling and I was much at unease. When we stopped to get fuel, I bought snacks and a drink. I did not eat them right away. I just kept them with me. Even though I had not eaten, when my body recognized that food was available and it was just a matter of time before I eat I became at ease and felt some relief. It got me thinking:

Sometimes what we need from our friends and family is the guarantee that they will be there for us when we need them. Even though they may not be present with us in person, but knowing that, God willing, they will be there for us when we need them is reassuring. The assurance that no matter where the highs and lows of life take us, we will have our close pals to stand with us, pray for us and help us through trying times. We don’t see God but knowing that He is always there for us is a most comforting thought. - My Reflections!

 

3. Still on my long trip to the South: When we got to Auchi and Ekpoma, some passengers disembarked from the bus. The driver picked new passengers along the way; much to our dismay (you can’t tell who is who that late in the night). There was this young man that boarded the bus. He came in and just kept to himself. He was so quiet that my discomfort increased; you know what they say, ‘It’s always the quiet ones.’ When we were about 15 mins drive from Benin, our vehicle broke down in the middle of nowhere. ‘ Hmm!’ The Driver and the rest of us were at a loss on what to do except for this young man. This guy took control of the situation. He was making suggestions on how to fix the car, and relating personal experiences on situations like this. Eventually we hailed another bus to tow our bus to Benin. The driver was so appreciative of the young man’s help that he thanked him repeatedly for the rest of the journey. It got me thinking:

You cannot tell the worth of some individuals until there is an urgent problem that needs to be solved. Great men are not only known for great speeches but are also known for doing great things in spite of great odds. - My Reflections!

My Reflections (Part 2)

- Our happiness is not determined by the (material) worth of the things we own; rather our happiness is derived from the value we place on the things we own.

- It is wise to speak less of what you know because, amongst other reasons, by so doing you humbly and quietly acknowledge the fact that there is much more than what you know and that there’s a lot more you need to know.

- For every truth, there is a lie once told (or said) about it.

- Looking good is good practice but doing just as well or even better in other areas of your life is good living!

- You cannot tell the worth of some individuals until there is an urgent problem that needs to be solved. Great men are not only known for great speeches but are also known for doing great things in spite of great odds.

- Sometimes, our nightmares are hard reminders of our worst struggles. In a way, they speak to us: Remember how far you’ve come and whence you came.

- If you understand the ‘why,’ you will not forget the ‘how.’ The trick to remembering the ‘how’ and the ‘what’ is grasping the meaning of the ‘why.’ When learning a new subject, one of the most crucial questions is: ‘Why?’

- While no one has it all, some certainly have it more. Nonetheless, what is more important is how well you make use of what you have. More often than not we focus on what we don’t have rather than on what we do have. Instead of asking, ‘How can I get what I don’t have?’ why not ask, ‘What can I do with what I have? How can I make better use of what I have now?’?

- If love is not real and true love does not exist, then why do heartbreaks hurt so much?

- Sometimes we all make foolish mistakes. That does not make you a fool. It only makes you human. The way we respond to such mistakes is what counts the most. Our reaction matters more because at this point wisdom and foolishness part ways.

Marriage Issues Redacted! (Compilation of long boring marriage jokes! ‘Na Course? How many credits?’)

See! Na Joke O! I meant to say: ‘It’s a Joke.’ Marriage Issues! (Part 1)

Marriage is a great thing. It’s a great institution. It can be said to be one of the best gifts given to man. Well, just like a great tool can be put to good use, it can also be put into a funny use. Hahahahahahahahahahahaha! (dat na laugh?)

There are different kinds of marriage (marriage na marriage, which level; abi na wi...

tch level?) depending on what led to the marriage.

1. Love-induced Marriage. This is the kind of marriage that occurs when the man falls madly in love. He was so much in love that he quickly did introduction, white and grey marriage and the whole package. He didn’t realize what was happening until he woke up after the wedding night. He woke up and saw a wedding ring on his finger. ‘It can’t be.’ He then went to the bathroom and washed his face so that he can see clearly. Then he saw his wife. ‘Ejiro, what happened?’ ‘You are now a married man.’ ‘What! I thought I was dreaming.’ ‘Dream ke. Abeg commot from road. I wan baff!’

2. Age-induced Marriage. Lizzy was in her thirties and was still single. Anytime she gets to her mother’s home there was always a chorus waiting for her. ‘Lizzy, you know you are not getting younger.’ ‘Lizzy, you are not getting younger.’ Fed up with the mum’s rhetorics, she hatched a plan. She paid off one infamous local tout to come to her mum’s house to ask her hand in marriage; all in pretext. On the arranged date, the guy came up to Lizzy’s mum and asked for Lizzy's hand in marriage. After a while, the mum came to see Lizzy. ‘Lizzy. Lizzy.Lizzy. How many times did I call you?’
‘Mummy, you know I’m not getting younger. I love him. I want to marry him.’
‘Lizzy. That’s why I came. I accepted Bomboy’s request. We’ve even fixed the date for payment of bride-price.’
‘What! Mummy, you can’t do that. It’s April fool.’ (It’s play us dey do oh!)

3. Facebook-induced Marriage. Once upon a time, if a lady wants to encourage her ‘guy’ to step up (man up), she would drag him to attend her friends’ weddings! These days, no need for that: we have Facebook. Biodun loved Dupe but Biodun was not taking the relationship to the next level, I meant, ‘to the permanent site.’ Any time Biodun visits Dupe, Dupe will open her Facebook page. ‘My dear, look at these pictures. So lovely, that’s Mary and her husband. Mary and I were classmates in school. Oh, I love this one. Look at the ring, splendid.’
Another visit: ‘Come! Come. This is Sandra. She was in the same class with my baby sister. She just got married. Waoh!’
Another visit: ‘Come and look.’
‘Dupe, I brought you a present.’ Dupe hopes were up. Biodun then brought out a brand new Blackberry phone. ‘Oh, oh oh….’
‘You don’t like it?’
‘No, I like it. It’s very womanly.’
(In Dupe's mind: Ode, Blackberry and engagement ring na de same thing?)

See! Na Joke O! I meant to say: ‘It’s a Joke.’ Marriage Issues! (Part 2)

4. Pregnancy-induced Marriage. This type is not difficult to diagnose. You see a guy who arranges wedding and marriage (what’s d difference?) ‘sharp sharp’! It’s happens so fast that you can’t catch your breath fast enough.
‘James, how are you?’
‘John, I’m good. I’m getting married tomorrow.’
‘What! I didn’t know you were pl...

anning on getting married.’
‘We made the decision yesterday. No time to waste. Time and tide waits for no one.’
(No worries, few months later John understood why? Time was really of the essence. 9 mths nor be joke!)

5. Green card-induced marriage. Simple. When you see a 60 year old 200pounds 6.5-foot tall white lady getting married to a 25 year old 50kg 5-foot tall Nigerian man (na hunger cause am), you don’t need a prophet to tell you how. That is what we call ‘arrangee’ marriage.

6. Juju-induced Marriage. One Italian man woke up in his house one morning and saw a wedding ring on his finger. He freaked: ‘Cosa! (meaning ‘what’)
To his surprise a black lady walked up to him in his bed-room. ‘Calmare.’ (meaning calm down). ‘Have you forgotten? We just came back from Nigeria where we did our traditional and white wedding. You are now my marito.’ (meaning husband)
The Italian man screamed: Dio mio (meaning oh my God) and fainted.
‘il mio amore, svegliati.(meaning my love, wake up) The honeymoon has just started.’

Marriage Issues! Are you Serious? No, I’m kidding! (Part 3)

7. Food-induced Marriage! Men choose their marriage partners for lots of reasons. Some do it based on the cooking talents of the would-be bride. Not bad. (Who nor like better food! Better food nor be only better money kill am; better wife join.) There was this man named John who traveled to his village. There he met a lady who prepared h...

im ‘correct’ local food. After eating the food, he was head over heels for this lady. He kept imagining marrying her and eating those kinds of meals everyday for the rest of his life. Eventually, he married her and took her to the city. What he did not know was that cooking was one of the very few good attributes the lady had. On the other hand, she was quite disrespectful. She was a local Hulk Hogan (she get muscle) and she treated the husband like her child. John was too afraid to contend with her. (make him for nor collect beating.)
‘John, eat your food and leave me alone!’
‘Welcome back. How was work today? Pull off your working clothes and take a shower. Your dinner is ready. Make sure you wash the plates oh!’ (Johnny go to school)
‘Shut up and eat your food. Talking, while eating, is a bad habit!’
John then met a friend who was looking for a wife to marry.
‘John, I will like to marry a woman like your wife who knows how to cook very well.’
‘Peter, let me give you an advice. Don’t make the same mistake I made. If you want to eat good food in your house, hire a good cook. At least, you can fire her whenever you like.’

8. Getting married to celebrate a success! There are people who get married as a way of celebrating a success. Get a new job, marry a new wife. Win an election, celebrate with friends; hold parties with enough food and drinks and then top it with a new wife. Win a new contract, marry a new wife. There was this man who made it as a rule; if he wins a big contract, he rewards himself with a new wife. So, one day he won a fifty million naira contract. As usual, he arranged to marry a new wife. In the course of the party held a day before the wedding, he got a call. ‘Sir, we are sorry to inform you that the contract has been revoked in light of recent developments.’ When the man heard that, he fainted. He was rushed to the hospital. When he woke up, his friends came up to him and asked him what the problem was. He said: ‘My enemies are after me.’
One of his friends said: ‘Don’t worry; you are getting married to a new wife tomorrow. She will help to console you.’
‘No oh, I’m not marrying her again oh! It’s bad omen to collapse a day before your wedding. Please, call off the wedding.’
(bad omen ko, bad omen ni; bad contract unko. Talk truth make Devil hide!)

Marriage Issues! Are you Serious? No, I’m kidding! (Part 4)

Marriage Made in Nigeria! Nigeria is a big and diverse country. Nigeria is diverse on issues like marriage.

Eastern Nigeria: In the East, everything has monetary value. So too are potential brides. The monetary worth of a bride is proportional to her educational qualifications and the amount spent in raising her. The bride–price of a se...

condary sch. certificate holder is higher than a primary sch. certificate holder. That of a Diploma holder is next in ranking. After that you have in ascending order: B.Sc. holder; M.Sc. holder; MBBS holder; PhD holder and so forth. There was this 40-year old Ibo man who wanted to marry a highly educated Ibo lady. He saw a lady he liked and went making enquiries on how to get the lady. He was told: ‘Una. She is a professor with OND, B.Sc., M.Sc., and PhDs.' When this man calculated her worth, he reasoned: ‘This amount of money can buy me two shops in Onitsha, two big plot of land in Owerri, and I can also use part of it to erect one complex of 10 rooms that I can place on rent. Una, I’m coming. I’m still a young man.’

Western Nigeria: I love the Yorubas. They like parties. They do 10-days marriage:
-Engagement party.
-Introduction party.
-Pre-Traditional wedding party.
-Intra-Traditional wedding party.
-Post-Traditional wedding house party.
-Bachelor party.
-White Wedding reception party.
-Post-Reception house party (where the Kpedu dey happen).
-Thanksgiving party (after the religious Thanksgiving service).
-Appreciation party (for all those who contributed to the marriage).
And this is just the beginning of the marriage. Let’s not go into the yearly anniversary parties, naming ceremonies, graduation from nursery sch., primary sch., secondary sch., parties (except if you want to write an encyclopedia!). There was this man that was invited to one of the above wedding parties. The party was so intense that he asked, ‘How many weddings are going on here?’ Someone told him: ‘It's one wedding. Relax, this is just the beginning (na the acting part we dey, the film never start)!’

Some other parts of Nigeria:
One man woke up one morning. ‘Oh, I have joint and bone pains. It’s like I need a new wife.' (This na original Panadol extra!)

Another man woke up. He started planning his day: ‘Go to work. After work, go to the market. Buy new cloth. Marry new wife. Greet some friends. Be back home by 8pm.’ (easy, no yanwa!)

Anyways, Nigeria is a very interesting country. In Nigeria, a song goes like this: ‘anything you find oh, you go see am oh. If you love me, I go love you.’
(Marriage don start! You go fear na!)

{Please note: the above piece is mere fiction made for a good laugh and has no bearing on anyone I know. The names and characters were all made up. Eugene A.O (‘any work?’)}

Being in Love – The Greatest Feeling Ever!

It's the greatest feeling ever: loving someone and being loved in return. While this may be evident in all sorts of relationships, I will focus on a man and a woman in love. This experience is so wonderful and thrilling that anyone who has not experienced it has not lived. I've experienced it and I’m so thrilled to relive it here. We have an amazing feeling when we buy something new, like a new car or a new house. We also feel great when we attain a new epoch in life: graduating from school, getting a new and befitting job, having our own accommodation, etc. Many also feel elated when they are successful in their various endeavours. Some feel exuberant, albeit transiently, when they are under the influence of drugs, alcohol, tobacco etc. Nevertheless, there is no feeling that can be remotely compared to that of a man and a woman in love. It is a feeling that has confounded man for ages.

"There are ... things that are too amazing for me,

... that I do not understand:

the way of a man with a young woman." - Proverbs 30: 18-19 NIV

The Feeling! It feels like the whole world has stopped in its tracks and that everything on earth pales into insignificance. Nothing else matters. You feel free, liberated like the birds of the heavens, growing wings and flying the world over. The feeling can't be described; it is simply ineffable. You experience sensations that are more profound than those of the five basic senses. The emotions are grand. You feel joy, happiness, peace, tenderness, graciousness, comfort, you name it. In short, you certainly have this feeling that is so unique and distinct. Nothing you have read or heard can prepare you for the overwhelming yet pleasurable rush of the amazing thrills of a man in love. Words can't express the feeling of been in love. Yet expressing these emotions in words has been the cornerstone of epic writings. Love utterances abound in the Bible, the works of William Shakespeare, and in so many other books, articles, songs, poems and sayings penned down by man.

"Place me like a seal over your heart,

like a seal on your arm;

for love is as strong as death,

its jealousy unyielding as the grave.

It burns like blazing fire,

like a mighty flame.

Many waters cannot quench love;

rivers cannot sweep it away." - Song of Songs 8: 6 - 7 NIV

"Love is a spirit all compact of fire."

(Venus and Adonis, 151)*

You Glow! One in love can't keep it hidden. His/her expressions betray what is felt on the inside. You will know a man/woman in love. He/she is all smiles even without provocation. The laughs are loud, prolonged and exaggerated. He becomes unusually conversational, picks interest in things that were once boring to him. He's very apologetic about any mistakes he makes at work or in his dealings with others. She is very chatty: on the phone and with others. She stays on the phone for hours: night and day. She talks about everything; from small silly childish things to issues of great value. She lays awake late into the night thinking about him, talking to him and about him. Even a shy and reserved person can not hide the glory of been in love.

"Doubt thou the stars are fire;

Doubt that the sun doth move;

Doubt truth to be a liar;

But never doubt I love."

(Hamlet, 1.2.123-6)*

It Grows! It matters not whether it's love at first sight or love with hindsight; love grows. Make no mistake, true and enduring love is like a tender plant that needs to be cultivated, nourished and made to blossom and flourish. It's a rule of the more you give, the more you receive. Love, whether it began as a thunderbolt or an undercurrent, will wither away if it's not nurtured. There is nothing like once in love, always in love. It's like a beauty: nothing beautiful will remain that way without proper maintenance. Remembering what brought the first spark of love can keep the embers of love burning. It is a thing of amazing radiance to watch love mature from larva to pupa and then to a full-blown adult entity with wings that can fly.

"My bounty is as boundless as the sea,

My love as deep; the more I give to thee,

The more I have, for both are infinite."

(Romeo and Juliet, 2.2.139-41)*

"This bud of love, by summer's ripening breath,

May prove a beauteous flower when next we meet."

(Romeo and Juliet, 2.2.121-2)*

Madly in Love! Love can drive one crazy, literally and otherwise. It can make one do stupid things. Nonetheless, that's part of the magic of love; it's like been under a spell. Don't spare yourself the embarrassment of being intoxicated with the liquor of love; it's worth every ounce.

"If thou remember'st not the slightest folly

That ever love did make thee run into,

Thou hast not loved."

(As You Like It, 2.4.33-5)*

A Sense of Purpose! How often we see some who've lost focus in life with no sense of purpose or direction, gain a resurgence of hope when they fall in love. When I was in school, I saw persons who were about giving up on the pursuits of their dream career, re-energized by the love and support shown by their loved ones. While some got carried away by 'love' at the detriment of their life's goal, a good number of individual benefited from the love of a very dear friend. I know guys whose relationship started in school, the moment they graduate, they are driven by the singular purpose of getting a good job, getting married to their soulmate and settling down to raise a family. That is not the case with others who graduate unattached. This group often find themselves getting a job before settling for a relationship all the while wondering whether the other person likes them for who they are or for the money they earn. My little experience has revealed that guys who start dating in school marry much earlier than those who wait after school. I also know that this is not always the case, but more often than not this is what happens. I know working-class guys who waste a lot of money craving for a semblance of love, money that could have been channelled into raising a family. So, isn't it obvious that a man/woman in love is purposeful, focused and driven towards more noble and honourable goals than one who is not? Don't get me wrong: there are those who make commitments to remaining single so as to pursue praiseworthy goals of much higher education, travelling abroad, being a minister of God or simply as a personal preference. Individuals who make genuine and conscientious efforts to keep romantic love at bay to pursue lofty goals in life deserve our utmost respect. My people say in local parlance, ‘e nor easy.’ For those with this God-given gift of singleness as espoused in the Bible, the love they have for God is of far-excelling value and God rewards them. Remember, there has to be love. Charles Dickens once quoted as saying, '“'Tis love that makes the world go round, my baby”#. To achieve lofty goals in life, to be filled with purpose and to have a life full of meaning, seek love today. The love of God exceeds all others. In his love God gave us the capacity to fall in love with a member of the opposite sex. If you've attained genuine romantic love, may the love you have for God move you to cultivate, nurture and hone this love into a union blessed by God: marriage.

"Have I caught thee, my heavenly jewel? Why, now let

me die, for I have lived long enough."

(The Merry Wives of Windsor, 3.3.35-6) *

"A heart well worth winning, and well won.

A heart that, once won, goes through fire and water for

the winner, and never changes, and is never daunted.”

(Charles Dickens)#

Living Responsibly! Love makes you responsible. If you are truly and sincerely in love with someone, you will do everything not to hurt that person. There are people whose entire course of life turned for the better the moment they fell in love. I've known persons who stopped an amoral lifestyle so they can be deserving of the one they love. It's not that simple. Nevertheless, there are things that make people change their way of life: love of God, disasters, personal tragedies, embarrassment, guilt, etc. One of such force of change is romantic love between a man and a woman. Granted, change can be either for good or bad. All said, a man or woman who falls in love with a responsible person more often than not, strive to be more responsible themselves.

"Such is my love, to thee I so belong,

That for thy right myself will bear all wrong."

(Sonnet 88)*

Realizing your Potentials! It's inspirational. You get inspired to do things that you once thought were unattainable. Love and the message of love have inspired ordinary men and women to be great poets, playwrights, authors, musicians, actors and noble professionals in varying fields of human endeavour.

"But love, first learned in a lady's eyes,

Lives not alone immured in the brain;

But, with the motion of all elements,

Courses as swift as thought in every power,

And gives to every power a double power,

Above their functions and their offices."

(Love's Labours Lost, 4.3.327-55)*

“And Jacob proceeded to serve seven years for Rachel,

but in his eyes they proved to be like some few days

because of his love for her”-Gen. 29:20 (New World Translation)

“A loving heart is the truest wisdom.”

(Charles Dickens)#

It's Real! Some say true love does not exist. That's a blatant lie. Have you seen a man in love that became heartbroken? The symptomatology of heartbreak shows how real and powerful love is: sleeplessness, poor appetite, weight loss, apathy, listlessness, malaise, even depression or frank psychosis in some cases. The question is, if love is not real why does heartbreak hurt so much? Why do some go as far as committing suicide or hurting others when they are heartbroken? Some don't appreciate what they have until they lose it. Every human being has the capacity to love. Even a brutish, tyrannical dictator can fall in love. Adolf Hitler was in love even till death. It was the story of Romeo and Juliet at the end of World War 11:

"Eva Braun met Adolf Hitler the first time when she was working

as the assistant of Hitler's personal photographer Hoffmann. A

few weeks after this meeting she agreed to follow (Hitler) to his

mountain retreat in the alps. Their attraction was immediate,

and over the objection of her parents, she became his mistress.

For the next sixteen years, she lived in luxury as millions

suffered and died at the hands of her 'Wulf'. After he survived

the July 1944 plot she wrote him an emotional letter, ending:

'From our first meeting I swore to follow you anywhere - even

unto death - I live only for your love.' Eva Braun, the young

woman who had spent most of her life waiting for Hitler, would

now be with him forever. Eva Braun had agreed to share

Adolf Hitler's fate. A local magistrate married them early on the

morning of April 29, 1945. The next day at a little after 3:30 p.m.,

they bit into thin glass vials of cyanide. As he did so, Hitler also shot

himself in the head with a 7.65 mm Walther pistol."

- www.auschwitz.dk/braun.htm

A Cure! You feel whole, brand 'tear-rubber' new. Love heals; its portions provide wholistic cure. If two men are sick of the same illness and receive the exact same treatment, the one in love will get better quicker. The reverse is the case with the one that has a heartbreak.

“She's got a smile that heals me

I don't know why it is

But I have to laugh when she

reveals me.”

- Billy Joel (American Pianist,

Singer and Song Writer)#

Love and Music! Shakespeare once famously wrote in the Twelfth Night, ‘If music be the food of love, play on.’ Music has been a medium through which love is expressed throughout the ages. They are intrinsically intertwined. Love has inspired music and music has moved many to fall in love. True to Shakespeare, music has fuelled and fanned the flame of love.

“Where do broken hearts go

Can they find their way home

Back to the open arms

Of a love that's waiting there

And if somebody loves you

Won't they always love you

I look in your eyes

And I know that you still care, for me”

- Whitney Houston, ‘Where Do Broken Hearts Go’ (1)

"You see through,

Right to the heart of me.

You break down my walls

With the strength of your love.

I never knew

Love like I've known it with you."

- Whitney Houston, ‘I Have Nothing’ (1)

“I was blessed because I was loved by you

You were my strength when I was weak

You were my voice when I couldn't speak

You were my eyes when I couldn't see

You saw the best there was in me

Lifted me up when I couldn't reach

You gave me faith 'coz you believed

I'm everything I am

Because you loved me”

- Celine Dion, ‘ Because You Loved Me’ (1)

A Gift from God! I feel bad when people consider that God created us and simply left us on earth to suffer. While the issue of why evil exist is beyond the scope of this discourse, there are verifiable evidence that bear credence to the fact that we were created by an amazing and loving Father who gave us so much for us to enjoy life on earth, in spite of the ills that prevail now on our planet. God did not create us like mechanical robots that lack feeling, nor did he make us like zombies whose entire life course is programmed to follow a regimented pattern. No, rather he created us with the capacity to love, to feel, to care and to fall in love. Stop to think of it, how this life will look like without the capacity to love! In the beginning God created love:

" And Jehovah God proceeded to

build the rib that

he had taken from the MAN into

a WOMAN and to

bring her to the MAN.

Then the MAN said:

'This is at last bone of my bones

And flesh of my flesh.

This one will be called WOMAN,

Because from MAN

this one was taken.'

That is why a man will leave his

father and his mother and

he must stick to his wife and

they must become one FLESH"

-          Genesis 2: 23, 24 (New World Translation)

May you find love and stay in love because it's a gift from God. Let me leave you with one of the best love songs ever written:

The Colour Of My Love lyrics

(Songwriters: Foster, David; Janov, Arthur)

I'll paint my mood in shades of blue

Paint my soul to be with you

I'll sketch your lips in shaded tones

Draw your mouth to my own

I'll draw your arms around my waist

Then all doubt I shall erase

I'll paint the rain that softly lands on your wind-blown hair

I'll trace a hand to wipe out your tears

A look to calm your fears

A silhouette of dark and light

While we hold each other oh so tight

I'll paint a sun to warm your heart

Swearing that we'll never part

That's the colour of my love

I'll paint the truth

Show how I feel

Try to make you completely real

I'll use a brush so light and fine

To draw you close and make you mine

I'll paint the truth

Show how I feel

Try to make you completely real

I'll use a brush so light and fine

To draw you close and make you mine

I'll paint a sun to warm your heart

Swearing that we'll never part

That's the colour of my love

I'll draw the years all passing by

So much to learn so much to try

And with this ring our lives will start

Swearing that we'll never part

I offer what you cannot buy

Devoted love until we die

[. From: http://www.elyrics.net/read/c/celine-dion-lyrics/the-colour-of-my-love-lyrics.html .]

* excerpts from www.shakespeare-online.com

# excerpts from www.thinkexist.com

1. excerpts from www.lyrics007.com

Please note: the online links above were gotten from www.google.com

Thanks for reading it. I love you. Dr. Eugene A. O

In Moments of Grief (Redacted versions)!

When Death will be no more!

I remember him with a sense of pride.

He kept pace with each life's stride.

Sadly, cowardly Death sought him to blindside

In the last Yuletide!

It was one eventide,

While taking a snap Facebook glide

With a sad update my eyes collide.

My heart was torn from the inside.

I was beside

Myself with tears and scars hard to debride!

But, onto Jah I looked for aide;

In His ears my worries confide.

O God with comfort provide.

Your word may we abide;

To your way may we decide!

O, from your faith may we never backslide

And save us from Death's deride.

While we await the End-tide

When death and Hades collide

And into the lake of fire they'll slide:

The ultimate deathicide

And to Death the final woe betide.

With the Lamb adorned as bride,

Satan's evil machinations You'll override

And Your people in peace reside.

Putting our sorrows aside,

And allaying our pains earth wide!

There's no time to sit astride,

Into His word I took a thoughtful ride.

Revelation 21:3, 4 states: “Look!

The tent of God is with mankind,

and he will reside with them,

and they will be his peoples.

And God himself will be with them.

And he will wipe

out every tear from their eyes,

and death will be no more.

Caught in a Trance!

I went back in space

And I took a glimpse of her grace.

She had such balance and elegance

That you could mistook her race.

Just a glance

Made my heart to pace!

She was far more priceless than a golden necklace;

Her value exceeded the Senate mace.

She was an ace

In her home terrace

Holding bridges like an Italian shoelace.

She had the resilience of a neck brace.

Not even the treasures in King Solomon's palace

Could stand her pretty face!

She was hit by a menace

Like the general populace.

As the illness grew apace

Seeing her sad grimace

Take my heart apiece.

Too soon she was gone without a trace.

But I take solace

In the Prince of peace

A promise of ascendance

From the earth's undersurface

To the warm embrace

Of an everlasting physical essence;

While death is effaced in the burning furnace!

John 11: 25 states: “Jesus said to her: ‘I am the

Resurrection and the life. He that exercises

Faith in me, even though he dies,

Will come to life.”