Can you walk around freely, jump or
hop around without pains or stress? Do you know how valuable it is to move
around effortlessly with your legs? Have you hurt you foot before and then
suddenly you move around sluggishly with pains? I guess you won’t be so
bothered because when the injury heals, you can freely move around again.
But does that not give you a glimpse of what it feels like when an able-bodied
grown man suddenly finds it difficult or impossible to walk around as result of
an illness or an accident? How scary the thought would be that this is not a
temporary injury but a permanent life-altering disability? How aggrieved would
it be if one suddenly finds out that he or she can’t just stroll around anymore
and that he or she have to move around with a wheelchair or the with aid of prosthesis or arm supports! Would that be the end of the world? How have some
individuals in the past dealt with their paralysis? In their grief over the loss
of some or all of the functions of their limbs, did they find more reason to
live and to make a difference and to leave this world a better place than they
met it? Let’s begin:
In
Their Grief, They found a Course – The Story of John C. Hockenberry!
John
Charles Hockenberry was born on June 4, 1956. At the age of 19 when he was an
undergraduate student, he was in a vehicle that got involved in a gruesome
accident. He sustained spinal cord injury that left him paralyzed with loss of
sensation and voluntary movement from his mid-chest down. He later took
interest in broadcasting and journalism. In spite of the limitations of been in
a wheelchair, he became so proficient in his career. He worked in major
broadcasting networks like ABC and NBC. He covered the Persian Gulf War in 1991
and 1992. He covered the civil war in Somalia
and the early days of the al-Qaeda in Afghanistan . He’s written
well-acclaimed books, articles, and documentaries. He’s written for major
newspapers in the US like
The New York Times and The Washington
Post. He’s also fought for the rights of disabled people by championing their
course and representing them in The White House and United Nations. In the
course of his career, he’s won many awards: four-time Emmy Award winner (the
Emmy is the TV equivalent of the Oscars and Grammy Awards) and three-time Peabody Award winner (Peabody awards is more for radio
broadcasting). He’s married with children: two sets of twins and a boy. The
essence of this story is: in spite of his obvious disabilities, he did not give
up. He undertook a career that was challenging even for able-bodied individuals
and he excelled. He reported in war zones, not just in the comfort of an
office. He raised a family. He used his position as a prominent individual in the
disabled community to fight for the rights and interests of the disabled. When
interviewed about one of his books, he said:
‘It
was a memoir about my accident and right after it and how I got into radio and
sort of the discoveries I [made] along the way of how being physically
different turned out to be an advantage in strange sorts of ways and the kinds
of things that you're motivated to do when you feel like you're different and
have to overcompensate and how ridiculous sometimes those things can be.’ – He
was interviewed by Linda Richards on January Magazine (januarymagazine.com)
He was
the 32nd President of the United
States . Before he became President of the US , he suffered
from a paralytic illness which left him with permanent paralysis from the waist
down. While he used a wheelchair in private, on public functions, he used iron
braces that fitted his hips and legs. In spite of his limitations, he was the
longest serving American President. He won four elections to serve as
President. He led America
through some of its worst crises in history: The Great Depression and The
Second World War. He traveled the length and breadth of the earth to attend
conferences that formulated strategies to end World War II. He died in 1945 while
serving his fourth term as President. He’s been ranked the third best President
in American history after George Washington and Abraham Lincoln. In spite of
his disabilities, he led his nation through thick and thin. Imagine the grief
felt in America after the
Japanese invasion and destruction of Pearl Harbor
in 1941. But the man in the wheels showed no sign of weakness; he courageously
stood up to give a famous speech to Congress and declared an act of war! As
President, he helped formed the National Foundation for Infantile Paralysis
(the March of Dimes). He’s quoted as saying the following:
‘The
only thing we have to fear is fear itself.’
‘When
you get to the end of the rope. Tie a knot and hang on.’
‘Happiness
is not in the mere possession of money; it lies in the joy of achievement, in
the thrill of creative effort.’
‘Courage
is not the absence of fear, but rather the assessment that something else is
more important than fear.’ – Quotes sourced from www.goodreads.com
Arthur
C. Guyton
Arthur
Clifton Guyton is a household name in the world of medicine. He’s well known
for his book: Guyton’s Textbook of Medical Physiology. He attended the University of Mississippi
and Harvard Medical School .
It’s reported that he wanted to be a cardiovascular surgeon. But in the final
year of his residency training, he had poliomyelitis disease. As a result of
the disease, he suffered paralysis in his right leg, left arm, and both
shoulders. That interrupted his training and he spent months to recuperate. Faced
with the challenge of partial paralysis and limited mobility, he built the
“first motorized wheelchair controlled by a ‘joy stick,’ motorized hoists for
lifting patients, special leg braces, and other devices to aid the
handicapped.” He abandoned the pursuit of been a surgeon and devoted himself to
teaching and research. He later became the head of the Department of Physiology
in the University
of Mississippi . He
excelled in his research efforts and he brought a lot of new insights in the
field of physiology and for which he received many awards. He was an
accomplished Professor who taught many students for over 50 years, many of whom
later became professionals in their own rights. Unlike other major medical
textbooks, which often had many authors, the first 8 editions of his book,
Guyton’s Textbook of Medical physiology were written entirely by him. He and
the wife raised ten children and they are all doctors. 8 of his children
graduated from Harvard Medical School, one from Duke Medical School, and one
from University of Miami Medical School after receiving a PhD from Harvard. Among his children, there is a Professor of Ophthalmology, a Professor of
Surgery, a Professor of Medicine, a Cardiothoracic Surgeon, a Rheumatologist,
two Anaesthiologists and two Orthopaedic Surgeons. The success he had in
raising his children was related to his philosophy of ‘learn by doing.’ Even
with his disabilities, everything in his house from swimming pool, sail boats
to electric home gadgets were all constructed by him and his children. It’s
reported that he repaired leaks and faulty household equipment himself even
when it would have been a lot easier to invite a repairman. He died in a car
accident in 2003. It’s unbelievable that a man who used crutches and a wheelchair
would achieve all these feats. He’s quoted as saying:
‘If
you need it and it doesn't exist, invent it.’
(Specifics
of the above stories were sourced from Google.com and Wikipedia.com)
On a
final note in this series, let me say I find all the above stories very
personal. I was born and raised for much of my formative years by a paraplegic
father. Yes, the late Mr. Moses Ojirigho was an able-bodied man who was born
with his full bodily functions. He was a promising young man when he suddenly
fell ill to a terrible disease that left him paralyzed from his waist down. He
sought treatment for so many years all to no avail. In spite of his
limitations, he didn’t give up. He was resilient. He was hopeful. He was
hard-working I was born to meet him in his paraplegic state but I don’t know
many able-bodied men who could courageously do the things he did. He taught me
a lot. The most important lesson I learnt from him is the value of endurance.
His life was the epitome of patience, endurance and perseverance. I’m Dr.
Eugene A. Ojirigho, the proud son of a paraplegic father and I have nothing to
be ashamed of about that. In grief, he stood tall even though literally he
could not stand on his own. I lost him years ago, but he’s my hero any day, a
great dad who gave it all in spite of all the odds. My dad loved writing down
his thoughts in colourful words. If I'm any good in writing, i'm nothing, i'm
just being the true son of my father. My father once told me, ‘You don’t forget
the things that are most important to you.’ There is power in grief. Loss of a
loved one does not mean the end of the world. Loss of sight or hearing or loss
of the ability to walk does not make you less human. It does not stop you from
reaching your goals. Rather such loss could inspire you to greater heights.
Yes, in grief and sorrow, we can all find a purposeful and productive course of
life. To all those who lost loved ones in the ill-fated Dana flight, I say,
‘don’t give up.’ Be resolved to lead a more rewarding life that your loved ones
would be proud of were they alive to see you. Thanks for your patience and love
in reading this rather long article. Stay safe! Peace!
P.S.
This is the last of the series: In their Grief, They Found a Course! I wrote it
for the memories of those who lost their lives in the tragic Dana Airline plane
crash in Lagos on the 3rd of June, 2012. May all who've lost loved ones at one
time or another find a course worthy of the memory of those whom they've lost!
– Dr. Eugene A. O
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